much needed.

last night was a night bound to come sometime soon.

a full blown confrontation sesh happened. and it was very much needed.

a quiet supper until one point was argued against another.

the tears began and once home there was a "meeting" upstairs.

an hour and a half later it felt like we got somewhere if nowhere.

we're going in to a christmas with many factors.

everyone needing everyone at some point.

we need to realise what is truly the most important for christmas this year and not have any burdens.

yes, i feel sorry for you BUT you need to engage more with this family and not just one person otherwise this christmas will not work out. you need to break free somewhat.

if you want to leave your children behind over christmas, do so. yes, they were invited but why would they want to suddenly join another family for chirstmas 4 hours away whom they've never met. FAIR.

i don't believe it's right but then again, people deal with issues their own way. and you're all boys. none of you may talk to each other about "feelings" like us girls do but i hope you do someday.

i pray that you can become a whole family again,be with each other and not feel dependent on always coming here.

gee the timing was all off in this situation.